Is Your Son Ready for the Real World Or Quietly Falling Behind?

Take this free 2 minute Independence Test to uncover the 10 hidden skills

every young man must master before leaving home.

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Created by a nationally recognized coach who has helped hundreds of young men build confidence, independence, and success.

Why Most Parents Miss the Warning Signs

After working with young men across the country I have seen the same pattern again and again.

Smart capable teens who look fine on the surface are quietly missing the core skills they will need to succeed on their own. Parents often do not notice the gaps until it is too late when their son is already struggling with college, work, or independence.

This free 2 minute test will show you exactly where your son stands today before those gaps hold him back.

In Just 2 Minutes You Will Discover If Your Son Can…

Stay motivated without constant reminders

Handle criticism and setbacks without shutting down

Make decisions confidently without freezing or overthinking

Set and actually achieve

meaningful goals

Manage his time, money, health, and habits like a self-reliant adult

Who Created The

Independence Test?

I’m Ricky Carilli, a national coach and mentor who has helped hundreds of teen and young adult men develop the real-world skills schools fail to teach. From confidence and communication, to self-awareness and time management, I’ve seen exactly what separates a young man who thrives from one who struggles. The good news is that these are all skills that can be learned.

That’s why I created this free Independence Test—so parents like you can quickly see where your son is strong, and where he may need support, before it’s too late.

What Our Clients Are Saying

The most powerful testament to our work comes from the young men and parents we’ve had the privilege to serve.

Their stories of transformation speak to the lasting impact of our approach.

Ricky definitely changed my life for the better. His 12 week program is 100% worth it and I am a way better person from it. I recommend to anyone that is struggling in life or needs some guidance.

Josh
21, California

Ricky helped me a ton in building my confidence, habits, and becoming a better man. He helped me overcome procrastination and strengthen goal-setting and time management. I’m excited to see how my life continues to grow using the tools Ricky gave me. 100% recommend for anyone looking to become the best version of themselves!

Alex
18, Illinois

Ricky has been a great mentor for my teenage son during their weekly sessions. He’s easy to talk to, relatable, and offers a lot of practical, real-world advice. It’s been really valuable for my son to have a positive role model to connect with. Ricky’s calm, honest approach and focus on personal growth and future planning have been a big help. Thank you Ricky!

Megan (Mom)
New Hampshire

I’m very thankful to have come across Ricky on IG. As a single mom, it can be very difficult to navigate the challenges of teaching a young son about becoming a man. Once my son started his mentoring journey with Ricky, I noticed changes quickly — particularly in how he made better use of his time. Ricky’s straightforward, no-nonsense approach is exactly what young men of this generation need. He delivers just that, while still being able to relate in a way that makes them feel comfortable enough to open up. I would highly recommend Ricky to any parent who sees their son struggling to take that next step in life or simply wants to give them a leg up. Thank you, Ricky!

Lisa (Mom)
Maryland

Working with Ricky has been a game-changer for me both professionally and personally. He just gets it. His experience shows, and his approach is honest, raw, and straight to the point. Whether it was business strategy, personal growth, or navigating social media, he offered sound advice, fresh perspectives, and most importantly real clarity. He’s knowledgeable, professional, and incredibly easy to talk to. Highly recommend to anyone looking for real guidance and results.

Anthony
24, New Jersey

It has been an amazing experience working with Coach Ricky! He has shared with me a lot of valuable material and wisdom and I feel like he really takes the time to listen and address my concerns and goals. My current goal-driven nature can be contributed to him even though he will say it’s all me. I’d like to acknowledge him as a mentor — I’ve come to appreciate the importance of having someone of a certain caliber that can cut through the noise and help align my potential success with actual accomplishments.

Manny
28, California

Just wanted to give a huge thank you to Ricky Carilli for the incredible work you’ve done with my son. Your guidance, patience, and belief in him have made a lasting impact — in the gym & school. The book As a Man Thinketh you gifted him was the perfect touch — a reminder that the journey he’s on is about so much more than winning. It’s about character, focus, and heart. We’re so grateful for the role you’ve played in his growth. Thank you for being a mentor.

Louis (Dad)
Florida

I signed my 12-year-old son up with Ricky during a time when he was feeling anxious and unsure of himself. From the start, Ricky made him feel seen and safe. Over the past few months, I’ve watched my son become more confident, emotionally aware, and able to speak up for himself. He’s learning to set boundaries and handle difficult moments with more calm and clarity. Ricky built a thoughtful, personalized plan that fit his needs. I am so grateful we found Ricky — he’s left a lasting mark that my son will carry as he continues to grow.

Amy (Mom)
California

The impact Ricky has had in my son’s life is immeasurable. I was honestly running out of options when I came across him. Having tried everything else to no avail, I figured I would give it a shot. My son was resistant to any help or advice I gave him. Ricky told me to just get him on a video call for 10 mins. Using his guidance, I managed to do that. And the rest is history. I’ve never seen my son connect with anyone so quickly and deeply. This is the first time in over 5 years that I truly feel at peace about my son’s future. Even beyond the program, Ricky still checks in with my son to make sure he’s on the right path. I can’t recommend him enough.

Allie (Mom)
Washington

I appreciate the guidance and giving me more clarity for my goals I want to achieve, and helping me discipline myself more.

TJ
16, Maryland

Awesome coaching for young people who need it!!

Matthew
18, California

Ricky has been a blessing to our family. His story to success is incredible! Combined with his professional knowledge, it’s no wonder so many young men gain so much value from him. He is bridging the gap between school and the real world!

Holly (Mom)
New York

Coaching was in depth and thorough. The material was well within line with what I wanted to learn and what I felt like I needed. There wasn’t any BS. Ricky taught me key exercises and helped me think of mindsets that’ll help me in the future. I’m very thankful for him and would recommend him to anyone.

Nakai
21, Texas

Ricky Carilli is one of a kind. He is extremely passionate about what he delivers and has a great, outgoing personality. Ricky has a unique ability to connect with young men on their level. He is professional and makes one feel comfortable. His professional experiences as well as his real life ones make him a win-win combo. Highly recommend.

Linda (Mom)
Nevada

Ricky! I just want to thank you for all the help and guidance throughout one of the hardest times I’ve had in my life. When we met I was going through a breakup, finding my way in both my work and home life, and you were there every step. Since then I’ve gotten over a six-figure salary doing a job I love in construction, hitting the gym like a beast, and genuinely the happiest I’ve been in a long time. I never really was big on reaching out for help, but I couldn’t be happier with not only the guidance you’ve given me, time and effort you’ve put in, but also the friendship I gained from this. Appreciate you bro!

Dawson
24, Ohio

Ricky is a very down to Earth person. I just recently finished working with him, and I am very satisfied with the knowledge he has given me. Ricky helped me gain confidence to go through life, and the ability to know what is best for me and my goals. I highly recommend Ricky’s program to anyone who needs help becoming unstoppable.

Nick
19, Illinois

Life Will Test Your Son—Ready or Not. And if he’s not prepared, the world won’t go easy on him.

The question is simple: Will he pass—or will he stumble?

This free 2-minute checklist could be the difference between him stepping into adulthood with confidence… or being forced to learn the hard way.

Once you complete the checklist, you’ll also see how I’ve helped young men close their gaps fast—before the real world exposes them.

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